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What is High-Functioning Anxiety?

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Dr. Norris Von Curl, II, MD

Anxiety is often depicted as paralyzing fear or panic, but not everyone with an anxiety disorder fits this mold. Some individuals are high achievers, organized, articulate, and appear confident – all while silently battling inner turmoil. These individuals are sometimes referred to as having high-functioning anxiety (HFA), and it describes more people than you might think.

Despite its lack of formal recognition in diagnostic manuals, high-functioning anxiety is a very real experience. Many people with HFA perform well at work, maintain social obligations, and seem outwardly successful. However, their drive may stem from inner fear, perfectionism, and chronic worry. Over time, these pressures can become emotionally exhausting and isolating.

What Is an Anxiety Disorder?

Anxiety disorders are the most common mental health condition in the U.S., affecting roughly 40 million adults each year. These disorders involve persistent and excessive fear or worry that interferes with daily life. It’s more than temporary stress or nervousness; anxiety can become debilitating and interfere with decision-making, relationships, and physical health.

Common Types of Anxiety Disorders

While high-functioning anxiety isn’t an official diagnosis in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), it shares features with several recognized anxiety disorders, including:

  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): GAD is characterized by chronic, exaggerated worry about everyday matters, even when there’s little tangible reason for concern. People with GAD often anticipate disaster and can’t stop worrying about health, money, family, or work.
  • Social Anxiety Disorder: This disorder involves intense fear of being judged, rejected, or embarrassed in social situations. This can lead to avoidance of social events or extreme discomfort when interacting with others.
  • Panic Disorder: This disorder is marked by recurrent, unexpected panic attacks and persistent worry about having more attacks. Panic attacks may include symptoms such as chest pain, shortness of breath, and dizziness.
  • Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD): This often-misunderstood condition involves intrusive thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors (compulsions) that are repeated to manage anxiety. For example, someone might wash their hands repeatedly in an effort to assuage their fear of illness.
  • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): This condition is triggered by traumatic events and causes ongoing fear, nightmares, and hypervigilance. People with PTSD often feel like they are reliving the trauma and may avoid reminders of the event.

Each of these disorders has distinct characteristics, but they all involve a sense of fear, dread, or unease. High-functioning anxiety tends to overlap most with GAD, but the symptoms of anxiety often go unnoticed due to the person’s outward productivity.

Signs of High-Functioning Anxiety

People with high-functioning anxiety are often seen as successful, put-together individuals. They may excel in school, at work, or in social settings. However, their external accomplishments often mask deep internal distress.

Common Signs and Symptoms of High-Functioning Anxiety

Here are some ways high-functioning anxiety may present:

  • Perfectionism: A constant pressure to meet high standards, often driven by fear of failure or judgment. Even small mistakes can lead to excessive self-criticism.
  • Overthinking: Ruminating on conversations, decisions, or future events long after they’ve passed. This can cause mental fatigue and difficulty moving on from perceived missteps.
  • Need for Control: Excessive planning and organization to prevent uncertainty or mistakes. People with HFA may rely on routines and become distressed if plans change unexpectedly.
  • Chronic Worry: Persistent, low-level worry about everyday tasks, relationships, or responsibilities. This worry is often out of proportion to the actual situation.
  • Procrastination Followed by Overcompensation: Delaying tasks due to fear, then working intensely to meet deadlines. This cycle can lead to burnout and physical exhaustion.
  • Trouble Saying No: Taking on too much due to fear of disappointing others or appearing incapable. This may lead to overcommitment and resentment.
  • Insomnia or Sleep Disturbances: Trouble falling or staying asleep due to a racing mind. Sleep deprivation then exacerbates anxiety symptoms.
  • Somatic Symptoms: Headaches, gastrointestinal issues, muscle tension, and fatigue. These physical signs are often overlooked as being stress-related.
  • People-Pleasing Behavior: Prioritizing others’ needs to avoid conflict or rejection. This can make it hard for individuals to express their true needs or set boundaries.
  • Internal Self-Criticism: A harsh inner voice that constantly questions whether they’re doing enough. This ongoing self-doubt can erode self-esteem.

Coping Mechanisms and Accommodations

Many individuals with HFA develop adaptive strategies to manage their symptoms, often without realizing they are accommodations. These may include:

  • Meticulous Calendars and To-Do Lists: To maintain control and minimize anxiety. A well-structured schedule can feel like a safety net.
  • Avoidance of Social Downtime: Keeping busy to avoid being alone with anxious thoughts. Silence may be uncomfortable, so constant productivity becomes a form of escape.
  • Substance Use or Overconsumption of Caffeine: To either calm nerves or stay productive. While these may seem helpful in the short term, they can worsen anxiety over time.
  • Overpreparing: For meetings, presentations, or social events to prevent any chance of failure. Rehearsing repeatedly may provide a feeling of control.
  • Masking Symptoms: Hiding anxiety with humor, excessive enthusiasm, or avoidance of personal disclosure. This can make it hard for loved ones to recognize the signs.

While these behaviors may contribute to success, they often come at a cost. This can be emotional exhaustion, burnout, and an inability to relax.

Treatment and Therapy for High-Functioning Anxiety

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Because people with HFA often go undiagnosed, they may believe their symptoms are simply part of their personality. However, effective treatment is available and can lead to significant improvements in well-being.

Psychotherapy Options

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is one of the most effective treatments for anxiety. It helps individuals identify and reframe negative thought patterns, challenge irrational fears, and develop healthier coping mechanisms. For example, someone with HFA might work with a therapist to recognize that missing a deadline doesn’t define their worth.
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Originally developed for borderline personality disorder, dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) has been shown to help with emotional regulation and mindfulness, both valuable tools for those with HFA. DBT teaches skills in distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and self-compassion.
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): This therapy focuses on accepting anxious thoughts rather than fighting them, and building a value-driven life despite fear. ACT encourages clients to clarify what truly matters to them and commit to actions that align with those values.
  • Exposure Therapy: While not as commonly used for HFA, it may be helpful in addressing specific avoidances or phobias related to anxiety. Gradual exposure to feared situations can reduce avoidance behaviors over time.

Holistic and Lifestyle-Based Approaches

  • Mindfulness Practices: The use of meditation, yoga, or grounding techniques can reduce chronic worry and increase awareness. Even a few minutes of daily meditation can improve emotional resilience.
  • Regular Exercise: Physical activity helps regulate mood by releasing endorphins and reducing stress hormones. Walking, swimming, and dancing are just a few anxiety-friendly options.
  • Sleep Hygiene: Developing a consistent sleep routine supports emotional resilience. This includes limiting screen time before bed, avoiding caffeine late in the day, and creating a calming nighttime ritual.
  • Nutrition: Eating regular, balanced meals and avoiding excessive caffeine or sugar can impact mood and anxiety levels. Complex carbohydrates, lean proteins, and omega-3s are especially beneficial.
  • Limiting Stimulants and Alcohol: These substances can exacerbate symptoms of anxiety. Staying hydrated and replacing alcohol with herbal teas or other calming beverages can be a helpful alternative.

Receive Mental Health Support at First Steps Recovery

High-functioning anxiety may be more hidden than other anxiety disorders, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t valid or deserving of attention. In fact, the pressure to maintain appearances often makes it even harder for individuals to ask for help.

Our team understands that anxiety presents differently for everyone. Whether you’re a professional pushing through perfectionism or a parent juggling endless responsibilities while feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone. At First Steps Recovery, we believe that mental health treatment should be accessible, compassionate, and tailored to the individual.

We offer a wide range of evidence-based therapies, holistic healing options, and customized treatment plans to address anxiety, depression, OCD, and more. In a safe, judgment-free space, you can explore the root causes of your anxiety, learn sustainable coping tools, and reconnect with a calmer, more authentic version of yourself.

You don’t have to wait until things fall apart. Our caring team is here to walk beside you every step of the way. Contact our team today to learn more.

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